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Why Conversations Before Marriage Matter
Good communication before marriage can help two people understand whether their expectations and priorities are compatible. It also provides an opportunity to discover areas that may require further discussion before making a commitment.
Talk About Expectations
Discuss what each person imagines married life will look like. This can include daily responsibilities, careers, social life, household roles and the amount of time each person expects to spend with family.
Discuss Finances Responsibly
Money can affect many areas of married life. Appropriate discussions may include attitudes toward saving and spending, existing responsibilities, budgeting and how financial decisions could be handled after marriage.
Understand Family Relationships
Family involvement varies widely between households and cultures. Discuss boundaries, responsibilities toward parents and relatives, living arrangements and how disagreements involving extended family might be managed.
Discuss Future Plans
Education, careers, relocation and children can significantly affect a marriage. Two people do not need a perfectly fixed plan, but major differences should be understood before marriage rather than discovered afterwards.
Notice How Difficult Topics Are Handled
The subject of a disagreement is sometimes less informative than the way the disagreement is managed. Respectful listening, patience and willingness to clarify misunderstandings are valuable qualities.
Ask Questions, But Also Listen
Premarital conversations should not feel like an interrogation. Both people should have space to explain their views and ask questions of their own.
Use the Process to Understand, Not Perform
The goal is not to provide perfect answers. Honest and respectful communication gives both people better information for deciding whether they are suited to building a life together.
